My story is all about how to guide young men in their sexual lives and keep young women safe at the same time. My primary offer on Makelovenotporn is my book 'Intimacy: A guide for young men about sex' and this is my opposite-to-porn guide for young men about what sex is about, how to have an extraordinary time with your partner(s) and how to keep safe throughout all their experiences. The premise of the book is this. 'If you focus on your partner's pleasure, you won't assault by default by emulating and copying porn'. We have outsourced the sexual education of our young people to pornography and pornography has normalised significantly damaging activities as part of sex. My book does the opposite. It normalises pleasure. It normalised focusing on your partner and their needs to ensure the most wonderful time possible is had.